Lewis,
Hang in there man
I went through this same situation three years ago and I am
finally getting to the other side of the tunnel.
It's a shame how love blossoms,
grows.... then dies and the rotting remainder is called divorce. In my case my
ex-wife went after all my vintage car parts. Luckily for me my Camaro was a
pre-marital asset and hence not on the table. I had to come up with a pile of money to keep all my vintage parts.
There isn't much left of my financial security for retirement now, but I'll get it back up there.....
If you need anyone to talk to about it, drop me a PM - Seriously! It's not fun but
you have to remain calm and be calculating about all your moves.
Now the fun starts.... All her "friends" coming out of the wood work giving divorce advice.
Nuch